Mohawks and Memories

The 2010 football season started last June, 2 days after school was let out for the summer.
Kohl loves football, I have never once heard him complain about going to practice, it doesn't matter
if it's 110 degrees or -10 he loves it. He loves it at 6:00 in the morning and he loves it at 8:00 at night.
I have seen him eat salt to help rehydrate on extreme heat days and I have seen him with fingers
swollen due to the cold. He still loves it. Bruises and scrapes are bragged about not complained
about. Sounds awful doesn't it? You are probably thinking why do we let him play, why do we
let him abuse his body? But it's really not that bad, especially when they love it as much as Kohl
does. (By the way he's required more emergency care playing baseball and roller blading and messing
around with his brothers then he's ever required for football!) Football in our town is rich with tradition.
Some of which include eating tacos as a team after Monday's practice, eating Chinese on Wednesdays
after practice and Thursday night there is a family meal. Tradition also states that when you make it
to the playoffs you get Mohawks. Kohl got his Mohawk proudly. (Once again you are thinking why?)
I don't know why?! It's only hair and it will grow back, but the memories and camaraderie will last
his lifetime. No one will soon forget this season. 11-1. Pretty amazing. It's the 1 that still stings a little.
I however don't think it hurts because they lost, I think it hurts because "what do we do now"? So, the
first Monday with no football, they ate tacos. We will see what Wednesday brings. Thursday there
won't be a family meal at the high school, but there will be one at home. I think I will make meatballs.
The same thing I have made every Thursday for the past 12 weeks upon request. Football is sometimes
over rated. The friends and memories Kohl has made are not. They are one of the best things that will
ever happen to him. Professional athletes ARE over rated and most definitely over paid. They are suppose to be role models for our young people, instead they are disappointments. I think the role models
around here get paid $0. They play because they love it, they play with heart. They make a public
display of "play what you love, play hard, learn lessons, and be proud"! I always want my children
to walk away from what they have done feeling proud. If you can't walk away proud you probably
haven't done your best, or represented yourself properly. Always winning isn't what should make you
proud, sometimes you have to lose. One of my proudest moments of all these fine young men this season, but especially you Kohl, was the way you handled yourself on the day you became 11 and 1. One of my favorite sayings as a mom of 4 boys is...
You don't raise hero's, you raise sons. And if you treat them like sons, they will turn out to be heroes even if it's only just in your eyes.      -- Walter M. Schirra Sr.
Kohlie if I haven't told you lately you are one of my most treasured heroes. Ily.
Thank you God for blessing me immensely.

Rushed

Kaden has been asking for weeks, since pumpkins first began showing up in the stores, "Mom, can we make a homemade pumpkin pie, with pumpkins not from a can?" I'd always say "yes, someday". Because that's what we as moms say when we would like to do something, but aren't really sure when we can fit it in. To be honest, I am not sure I really ever had any intentions of making a homemade pumpkin pie. Not because I don't like pie, not because I was afraid of the mess, not because I didn't want to spend time with Kaden, it just wasn't on the schedule. We have a mammoth sized calender, that most days is full. (and I'm not kidding, it is one of my favorite things and it is really called a mammoth grid calender!) But the poor boy kept asking, and asked enough that Grandma brought us 2 pie pumpkins. Now I am starting to feel bad, even Grandma knows how bad he wants this pie. So the pumpkins sit. Well one night this week we didn't have much going on, homework was done and we had some down time. I say "So Kaden, you want to make some pumpkin pie?" He says "really and NOT from a can?" I say "really!" Let the pie baking commence. He helps with everything, scooping out the seeds, cutting and baking the pumpkin, scooping pumpkin goop and mixing it with all the other ingredients, putting it in the oven. Happy boy. That was easy. We were having so much fun, and weren't worried about where to be next or who had what and so on. That we didn't realize how late it had gotten. Kaden needed to get to bed, it was a school night, but he had waited so long for this pie...it had to bake an hour and fifteen minutes. When we get the pie in the oven I say to him how late it is. His reply "it's ok mom, I can eat it for breakfast!" And he marched off to bed. Happy. Why had I waited so long? Why wasn't pie on the mammoth calender? Why is life so crazy that pie is hard? I love our fast paced life, really I wouldn't want it any other way. However, I think it should be mandatory that the mammoth grid have a few days blocked out for nothing but pie....or at least pie making type activities. I love you Kaden, and you make yummy, yummy pie, "from a pumpkin NOT a can"! Thank you God for blessing me immensely.

Another week...

I was trying to decide what to write about this week. And you would think with
our busy life style there would be something. But not every week has big events.
Some are small, and the impact they leave feels very small. Then I started thinking
about our week. As some of you may know Chase's cross country coach and his
family lost their house to a fire this past week. All were safe, but they lost so much.
So, at last Friday's football game the cross country team decided to set up a table and
take a collection for their coach and his family. It was a small table with a small sign, and
a jar. I think those boys were a bit unprepared for what happened next. People gave!
So unselfishly, they filled the jar. On Saturday after an emotional and not so great meet,
which was the last of the season, they as a team handed Coach an envelope. Some had no
idea how much was inside, some did. It didn't matter. Without even looking in the envelope,
without even caring how much it was, Coach began to tear up. (As well as every other man,
woman, and child in the vicinity.) He knew what these teenage boys had done for him and
his family. Coach doesn't consider himself needy right now, nor do we. He is unwilling to
take from someone else who has greater needs. But this was a gift. A gift I don't think he
or any of us will soon forget.
Also anyone knowing our Kaden, knows school is not his favorite. He has his reasons and they
are legit. We are actively working on them. He tries with his whole heart, and I could not ask
for more. It seems that the three before him have found learning easy, and he has to follow
in their footsteps. Kaden has word card tests every week and these prove to be a bit difficult for
him, so he also gets a little anxious. We encourage him in anyway we can. This week he wanted
to know if he got a 100% on his word card test could we buy him this special nerf gun he's been
wanting? Seems like a pretty pricey bribe, but I fell for it, as he hasn't gotten a 100 before. I feel
safe that I won't be having to buy this toy, but in my quiet place I hope with all that I am that I
will have to buy this toy! He worked so hard all week, and today is the day......I hope I have to
visit Wal-Mart tonight!
Some weeks it's the small stuff that turns out to be the really BIG stuff. Every day is a lesson for me,
I thank God for blessing me immensely.